Loving means listening with your heart… creating that Space of Love that contains the power to dissolve differences, conquer fears and heal old pains.

Consider the nature of true, pure love…

I often say that love is actually pretty ugly… Love is what brings us out of our deep sleeps to the aid of a sick child, or to help a frightened neighbour, or to be present at a grandparent’s deathbed. Love shows up, no matter what. Love carries us through the bad times… it has substance and strength to it. While it may waiver from time to time, and must be nourished to stay alive, when love is true, pure, unconditional, all it really takes is a small spark to create a roaring fire once again.

Most of us associate romance, attraction, excitement, with being in love – the heart palpitations, butterflies in the tummy, can’t wait to see them next feelings. What turns us on in relationship is about sexual energy, romantic imagery, passion, hope, exhilaration… but while true love has some of this fire in it, true love is much softer, calmer, quieter… True love doesn’t trigger our fears. When passion is expressed in love it leads to a sense of real contentment, a feeling of all being right with the world… and this feeling lasts no matter what else is going down… I don’t know if many of us really know the energy of love in this way… the kind of love that has a constancy and consistency to it, is trusting, sure, quiet, peaceful, nurturing, listening…

Did you know that your ability to love truly is directly connected with your ability to hear? And that your ability to listen – actively, from the heart, can make or break a relationship?

Global Psychics’ experts on love have long held that the way to nourish love is through active listening. Active listening is a multi-sensory event. When we are wholly involved in listening, we listen with all of our senses, we notice not only how we feel, but also how our partners feel. We are tuned in, responsive to all the insights coming to us, not just the words. We see the body movements, notice the hesitations, the pregnant pauses, and we can feel the raw energy at work.

What happens when we are listening, noticing, loving truly? More importantly, what happens when we’re not actively listening?

In our experience, an inability to listen with our hearts is at the bottom of most breakdowns in relationship. Without willing communications on both sides, we get bored, lost in our fantasies, and our relationships usually break down over time… one day you discover you’re living with a stranger… Better start listening, now!

When we’re listening, we can notice when our partners are unhappy. Too often we overlook the signals that a relationships needs attention because we are afraid to probe, fearful of what we might find out… To keep a relationship healthy, we must be sensitive enough to know when it is veering off course, and brave enough to ask the hard questions: “have I done something to upset you?” – and then we need to be loving enough to really listen and respond from our hearts.

One of the greatest barriers to loving – and listening – lies in the images we hold, our perception of what love and partners “should be.” When all that we hear from another is filtered through negative beliefs about ourselves, our partners, how we or our partners should behave, what relationship should look like, we cannot possibily hear or see each other clearly… To really be able to listen, we need to let go of expectations, romantic ideals and fantasies – all the “shoulds” – and allow ourselves to know and be fully in the moment… as if every time someone speaks, it is the first time you have ever heard them speak so. When every interection with another is fresh, without projections, innuendos or history… we are listening completely from an open heart… and can hear what is actually being said.

A second common barrier to loving and listening is our need for security which leads us to that habit so many of us have of letting our imaginations get away with us. To listen from your heart, you want to be listening without trying to interpret or read into what the other is saying. In our anxiety about being loved, we can read far too much into each other’s every action and word, seeking clues to the other’s love, reassurance and security… and when we are so focused on trying to interpret what the other is saying in terms of how it impacts us and our relationship, we miss half the conversation. To be successful in love, we must trust that we’re OK, that it is safe to communicate our feelings, that we don’t have to live in fear of what we might hear, or are not hearing. We can take things at face value without having to look for hidden meanings. And that can take a whole lot of the stress out of the relationship.

Listening leads us to take loving actions, to reach out to heal old wounds, to make changes that benefit our souls. Listening is to love what nurturing is to a child; listening is like water to a seedling, it enables us to grow.

To create a Space of Love that touches many souls….start by listening, with an open heart.

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I claim there ain’t Another Saint as great as Valentine. ~ Ogden Nash

Don’t smother each other.  No one can grow in the shade.  ~Leo Buscaglia

It is only when we no longer compulsively need someone that we can have a real relationship with them. ~ Anthony Storr

The most beautiful things in the world are not seen nor touched. They are felt with the heart. ~ Helen Keller

Love may conquer all, but it needs time as its field general. ~ Anonymous

Just because somebody doesn’t love you the way you want them to, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have

You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving. Proverbs 16:32

Where there is great love there are always miracles. -Willa Cather.

To be loved, be lovable. -Ovid.

 We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love. -Tom Robbins

Love is what makes two people sit in the middle of a bench when there is plenty of room at both ends.

Many a man in love with a dimple makes a mistake of marrying the whole girl. ~ Stephen Leacock

Love is the delightful interval between meeting a beautiful girl and discovering that she looks like a haddock. ~ John Barrymore

Love is the irresistable desire to be desired irresistably. ~ Louis Ginzberg

I don’t understand why Cupid was chosen to represent Valentine’s Day. When I think about romance, the last thing on my mind is a short, chubby toddler coming at me with a weapon.

Passion makes the world go round. Love just makes it a safer place

There is no surprise more magical than the surprise of being loved. It is God’s finger on man’s shoulder

Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly.

The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but to hold hands.

In the end, who among us does not choose to be a little less right to be a little less lonely.  ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com

Most people enter into relationships with an eye toward what they can get out of them, rather than what they can put into them.

The purpose of a relationship is to decide what part of yourself you’d like to see “show up,” not what part of another you can capture and hold.

The purpose of a relationship is not to have another who might complete you; but to have another with whom you might share your completeness. God from Conversations with God (Book 1) through Neale Donald Walsch

Love is friendship set on fire.

Let love be the sweet elixir that awakens your spirit and moves your soul to dance. ~ Author Unknown

Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable. ~ Dr. Joyce Brothers

Men always want to be a woman’s first love. Women have a more subtle instinct: What they like is to be a man’s last romance. ~ Oscar Wilde

Once in awhile, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale. ~ Author Unknown

The first duty of love is to listen. ~ Paul Tillich

Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction. -~Antoine Saint-Exupery

A man who marries a woman to educate her falls a victim to the same fallacy as the woman who marries a man to reform him. ~ Elbert Hubbard (1856-1915)  

True love is like a pair of socks you gotta have two and they’ve gotta match. ~ Author Unknown

Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away.  ~ Dorothy Parker

Do not marry a man to reform him. That is what reform schools are for. ~ Mae West

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Valentine’s Day Superstitions

the key to getting a new relationship started on the right foot…

You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover’s arms can only come later, when you’re sure they won’t laugh if you trip. -Jonathan Carroll

One of the biggest mistakes that you can make as you open a new relationship is trying to define it, to set a direction for it before you have had time to really get to know each other. Fear too often drives us to try to push love along. To make it happen. But love must evolve at its own pace and every new relationship needs time to evolve, to show itself.

We have become so goal-oriented, intent on instant gratification that I think many of us have forgotten to float along for awhile to see where life – and love – will take us…

I am not talking about rudderless floating, but rather the kind of relaxed, easy flowing that give you a chance to check out the scenery and get a good look at where you are and who you’re with.

When my son and I went camping last summer, we rented a paddleboat for an hour’s ride up the river winding through the park… From time to time we would stop paddling to just float along the river taking in the beauty of the moment and our environment.. But it was a gorgeous summer day, so there were lots of people doing the same thing we were… every once in awhile, we would have to take the rudder and paddle ourselves out of the way…

This is the way we need to be in a new relationship… float along for a bit, enjoy the process of getting to know someone new, see where the relationship will go on its own… every once in awhile you may need to “take the rudder” to get things back on course, but then get back to floating along until you reach the next “obstacle” or decision-point – you’ll know when it’s time to start paddling… which leads me to another important factor in making a new relationship work…

Trust your intuition… I can’t tell you how often I have commented in a reading that “you knew this was coming, you felt something was off months ago, but you over-rode your inner knowing.” Maybe because we’re afraid we’ll never find someone so we had better make this one work, maybe it’s because we don’t love ourselves enough, maybe because we think the other person will change  with our loving support… whatever the reason, we will ignore the amber flags, the signals that tell us whether a relationship is right for us or not… but if we will trust our intuition it can tell us when to float and when to steer…

If you find you’re holding back, there’s probably a good reason, trust your intuition to guide you… float along until you can see why… it may be that there just isn’t the right chemistry between you, but it could also be because you’re afraid and just need more time to build trust.

So, how do you float in relationship?

Start by letting go of expectation and “need” – don’t expect that he or she will return every call, don’t get anxious when he doesn’t call or she doesn’t respond…. and definitely DON’T keep calling when you don’t get a response.

For the first few months, avoid making plans beyond a week or two away.

Be flexible. If a date has to be postponed, don’t resist, just rearrange a time that suits both of you.

Be brave – be willing to say what you like, where you would like to go. Allow yourself to speak up about what works for you, and what doesn’t – but don’t expect to get what you want every time…. be open to compromise and negotiation… this sets a healthy pattern for the relationship and also creates more opportunity to get to know each other and to see if you can actually work together.

Floating in relationship gives you a chance to check out the scenery – it gives you time to know each other, not just what you like, but who you really are, and how you are as a couple, whether or not you have what it takes to make a relationship work in the long-term… it takes more than chemistry… floating along for awhile – at least 6 months – gives the pheromones time to settle down so you can see each other clearly. Then you can think of defining the relationship, setting a course for the future, making plans for holidays together, and maybe even to start a family.

Love is not something you look for,
Love is something you become.– Langley

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I like to believe that everyone has a soulmate. Do you reunite with your soulmate in each life and when you go to the other side? Also, do you reunite with your family in each life? It is just sad to think that you reincarnate and then never get to see your mom dad sister grandma etc. again. Or do you go to the other side and realize you have had like 20 different moms? This is a little confusing. Thank you! Chelsea

Soul mates do stay in touch and often reincarnate over and over again with each other, but there are times that a break or time out is necessary.  Then you will see a “planned” separation. Your soul mate is just that, your soul match.  There never really is any separation.  By definition of the term, there is only that soul to soul connect.  Love, Light, & Laughter, Christopher Ree

Souls often travel in groups, so it is very likely that you will reconnect with other family members, but often in other configurations… for example, my mother in this life was my wife in a life long ago and I am pretty sure that my next brother was probably my husband in some lifetime or another. But the truth is that you probably have had 30 or 40 different parents in a soul cycle… you have many more connections to people than you realize, many you don’t know in this life… that is why you will have a sense of knowing when you meet someone new at times… It may be confusing, but at the end of the day, we are all One, which means we are all connected in one large soul family… which has fragmented into groups over the ages… I do hope that explains it some, Lotsa LLLove, Danielle

A psychic or fortune-teller can only see the future as a possibility, the result of actions or thoughts of today. If those change to any extent, the future is changed. You should all know that by now. The future is largely your own creation. – Anonymous

 A client recently called, upset and worried because she was feeling pressured to follow through with an arranged marriage. Her question was “is he the right one for me?” But the real question I sensed was,” if I don’t settle for this man, will someone else come along?” – which immediately told me that the client was doubting the rightness of this marriage…I could see that while the family’s choice is a good man, industrious, committed, ambitious, the cultural differences between them would create some serious issues and the relationship would take a lot of work to sustain. I could also see that my client was very uncomfortable about saying yes, despite being tempted by the opportunity to end her search for a partner…. But I couldn’t tell her that he was “the right one”, nor could I say he wasn’t…. I am not walking in her shoes… only she can judge whether she is ready to take on the challenges such a relationship would entail.  All I can tell her, as a psychic, is what she might expect if she chose him, and that yes, if she said no, there would be another opportunity for love to come into her life..

No psychic reading is “set in stone”.  Every day we make decisions that have the potential to change our lives. What looks good today, could sour by tomorrow.  A good psychic can tell you that the possibility of disappointment – or success – exists, and what you can do to avoid or minimize the issues but only you can know if you are prepared to do the work that achieving success would demand.

Why get a reading?

Psychic readings can be an excellent way to gain some perspective, almost like taking an “aerial” view – an overview, if you will, of a particular situation, set of conditions or life patterns. A psychic reading helps you to identify what is influencing your success, and what you can do about it.

Global Psychics’ goal with every reading is to provide you with valuable information about what is going on around you along with practical insights about your options, thus empowering you to make better choices. We believe that through helping our clients to work with the unique circumstances of their lives, they will realize their own power of choice and the strength of spirit that comes from within.

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• when you have a decision to make and you want a second opinion, or some insight around the probabilities; whether that decision is about a relationship, or the purchase of a car, about renovating your home, or taking on that new business, we can give you the insights that will help you make the best choices.
• when you want to evaluate your options, or you need a little direction for the future; whether you’re reconsidering your career choices, your love life, or your holiday destinations, we can help you choose the best route.
• when you want to know what is really going on, or what it all means, when you’re faced with a complicated problem and you want to look a little more deeply into your circumstances; whether it’s about a battle in the office, a family feud, or a long series of losses, we can help you understand the underlying dynamics and give you some valuable ideas about what you can do to get things back on track. 

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