Past Loves Can Haunt Us 

Most of us have had many different lifetimes on planet earth. Often a past life will bleed through in dreams or unusual experiences or encounters, for example, past life memories can account for that sense of instant knowing when we meet someone new.

Connections to our past lives usually occur when there is old karma, unresolved issues or questions, work left to be done together and this is somehow affecting our lives in the present. So there is real value in looking back to see who we once were and who we were connected with, when why and how. However, we must remember that these are memories, past, old perspectives, available to us for insight and understanding. Knowing the past can shed light on present day issues, enabling us to overcome past mistakes… but when an old love is involved, we can be tempted to get lost in the past…

Hi, my name is Zoey and I’m 27 years old. I’ve experienced some things in my past that I would like to know about. I’ve heard a man’s voice whisper to me things like my name or once, actually told me to turn on the radio. I was puzzled for a long time. Especially since I never believed in life after death. (Now I totally do).  Spirits are real. Thing is, I became friends with a woman who says she is a medium. She had told me that the man I heard was a love from my past who commited suicide because I left him for some reason. Is that possible? She said that he is always around also and doesn’t want to leave. I saw him once while I was in bed with my eyes closed. He looked very kind and happy. I’d like to know if he is waiting for something? Also, is it possible for a spirit to  still be in love with someone that they had a relationship with in their past whom is reincarnated now? What’s really strange is that I feel I know his personality and I feel that I want to be with him and that I miss him.  I hope you don’t think I’m nuts. I have no intention on committing suicide. I just wanted to know why I feel this way? Last question, is it possible for him and I to be reincarnated in our next life together to try  our relationship again, I’m thinking no, since he wasn’t in this life.  Please help me understand this. Thank you, Zoey.

We would really need to do a past life reading to answer most of your questions… whether or not there is a past life connection with this spirit, you must stay in present time… I can understand your feelings in that I have myself felt that my true partner in life is not present on the planet at this time, yet I feel his presence and get to missing him from time to time… but he is not here, and I am, and I have a life to live… don’t let yourself get caught up in a relationship that can’t be. What the medium told you certainly is possible, and old bonds cross the dimensions of time and space… but don’t get lost in space… OK? There can be a lot of reasons why he hasn’t reincarnated.. It will be up to him whether or not he will be ready to reincarnate with you in a subsequent life, but it is possible. Hope that helps some. Lotsa LLLove, Danielle

I’ve been shown quite a few of my past lives recently, and I was also working clairvoyantly and psychicly too, I’m still developing. I cannot use the pendulum now as spirit energies who protected me or were related to me in past lives are wanting to protect me now, but their energies are negative. Apparently in past lives I lived by negatives and positives. One recent energy who keeps trying to come back to be my protector is my recently deceased father-in-law who was my brother in a previous life. This is causing so many problems and although a colourful character not altogether legitimate  but always friendly and lovely to me, his spirit energies are negative. Great battles keep taking place, not literally but this is hampering my development as my higher self wants him as protecter as before but I do not as I know better in this lifetime.  what do you suggest please. Carole

The thing about past lives is that we have the need and responsibility to move beyond them, so that we don’t repeat those same mistakes, and we get to live our lives in the here and now, not back in the there and then. In other words, the past is prologue, and every day we get to begin a new chapter It’s also important to know that the only thing that stays the same about a soul after it leaves this plane is your memory of that person. Their soul has moved on to complete their cycle, unless they haven’t fully released their bond to this world completely. You keeping them alive in some way is working to the detriment for all of you, so I’d strongly recommend wishing them all a fond adieu, in order for you to move ahead.

I’d also recommend adopting an animal totem as a protector, or even an ancient deity such as Pallas Athene, the Protectoress of the city of Athens. The Parthenon was her temple and she watched over the development of Western Philosophy, Democracy, and the arts, at a time when astronomy and astrology were not separate disciplines. It’s your birthright to create your own theology, no matter what anyone says.

An investigation of the shamanic drum would be helpful in finding an animal totem, and once you are called to one you will realize that it has been there all along. An open mind to Celtic or Native American spiritual traditions would be a good coinciding path to follow. These ancient memories are returning en force all over the world. They’re back to help us clean up the mess we’ve made, and are a reminder of when humanity lived in  harmony and cooperation with the natural world. I hope this has been helpful. Peace, Phil the astrologer

  1. Are you familiar with the works of Martin Schulman? He founded Karmic Astrology based entirely on how it is possible to understand residue of past life karma to be worked on in the current life, from the astrological chart. You might find it very interesting.

  2. i would like to know what books to look into about these things and anything linked to it :) (currently checking out all the information that i can find about past life, soulmates, bonds / links and unexplainable experiences) thank you ^^ and if anyone knows anyone / if they have experienced such, id be happy to read about these experiences :)

  3. I need some help on where to go to find out if i have been given th correct info about a close friend , whom i have been told that we were amazing lovers in a past life, now we have somehow been brought back together and there is a strong connection, so much so i feel totally lost without him…whay books can i read to find out why we have been put into ech others ife and for what purpose, polease help as im confused as to how we both feel and what we should be doing

  4. For a longtime now I have experienced dreams to where I see myself from a far. It is weird b/c it is like if I was an observant in the dream. The point is that I have seen myself and my husband in dreams, in another time running away from soldiers, I see us holding a child and we are dressed in middle age clothing, it seems like if he was a king and I a queen. In other dreams I see us very old and I know is us in these dreams, that is the weird part. Is it possible that my husband and I were loves in another lifetime, and if so is it possible that seeing us old could be the future, or us old in another life?

    I have to say since the first time we met we have had a strong connection.

  5. I have had several dreams where there is a man whom I love very much and feel I know him better than anyone I have ever known but when I look at him he is someone I have never seen before. When I wake from my dreams I have this overwhelming feeling of love that I have never felt before. Then I become sad and miss him and can’t wait until I see him again. Just wondering if you have any insight on these feelings and dreams and why they are so powerful.

  6. Martee,

    I used to have dreams like this, too. It is an overwhelming feeling to love someone from a dream, someone you have never met. I always assumed it meant the person I was meant to be with was going to show up and I would ‘know’ it when I met him. Thing is, I couldn’t tell you if it is the man I eventually married or not. *grin* I wasn’t able to carry the image in my head…and it didn’t matter at the point I met my husband anyway.

    I think these type of dreams are so powerful because love is a powerful emotion, but also, I suppose, it is because we are longing for that person who can make us feel this way~this incredibly amazing way.

    I don’t know what to tell you about how to ‘wait.’ But maybe if you offer these dreams up to the Universe as a ‘wish’ or need or deep longing you will find them fulfilled. I wish I’d thought of that for myself WAY back when! You might also ask your Higher Self to show you what you need to do in order to have this person ‘show up’ in your life. This (Higher Self’s revelation) can happen in dreamtime as well.

    I hope this helps. Or that you get some good advice from others on the site. Fortunately, one thing about dreams, in time we are released from their hold, though some dreams stick with us much longer, even unconsciously working to bring about things we aren’t aware of because the pain and ’emptiness’ would be too much to deal with on a conscious level for too long.

    Much love,

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