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Invading Entities
What to do about Uninvited Guests,
the spirits that come in the night…
Please help!
I moved into my flat in 1999, ever since, I have experienced spirits whenever I am alone in the flat. Specifically after 2am, a bag started moving on my bedroom table, my hair blowing but no window or door open the light was on. About a good 8 months later, I got back in from a night out, I was not drunk, I got in and started doing dishes and cleaning my bathroom, I felt someone watching me but I felt stupid so went to bed. As soon as I put my head to the pillow I saw a golden greeny light surrounding the shape of a man, there was a sound of a light flickering and the spirit walked around my room for a good 5mins then came over to me in bed. I pretended I was asleep, trying to pray for the thing to leave, he then leaned over and stroked my hand i knew this because my hand was moving on its own, then it kissed me, my eyes still shut, I felt its breath over my face, my lips were in all sorts of shapes then I squeezed my eyes and hands prayed and probably fell asleep.What is happening? Why do the spirits always come to me when I'm alone? I have a 3yr old but its when I leave my kid with my mum and go home alone that's when they bother me. I am so scared now that I sleep with the light on, My electricity bill is sky high because I sometimes have to leave the telly on so that I don't get scared from all those little sounds that may be a spirit walking around in my room. What should I do? I can't move out because my kid has just got into a school, help! I'm 21yrs old and I don't know if there's someone trying to get hold of me from the other side but I really wish they'd leave me alone. Charlene
Be Strong and Send Them Away
Sharon's Advice: When you said your story I got the feeling that the person on the other side was in love with a woman who lived in the flat and he died and I feel that she is actually dead too but that he doesn't know that. I get the information that you are very similar to this woman, he loved, and that he is misinterpreting you being there for her. I feel he has not quite made it over to the other side yet.
You can pray to God for this to happen. When he bothers you just ask him to find the light and move forward with God and that his wife is actually with God that its not you.
I do not feel he will not harm you at all as he really loved this woman in his heart and soul.
I feel there are a few things you can do. Firstly, make sure you surround yourself with light before going to bed.
Prayer is a good thing too. Here's my favourite.
The Light of God Surrounds Me.
The Power of God Enfolds me,
Only those who walk in God's light
are allowed to enter into my circle of light.
Only those masters of Christ Consciousness are allowed to channel information to me.
Sometimes if I wake up in a fright and I can't think straight I just say the Lord's prayer and anything in the room that is making me uneasy usually gets away fast.
Also, sometimes I just have a little Chat with God and I say "Listen God if it is in my best interest for this energy to be with me, let it be, if not can you please get rid of it for me." Good Luck and Bright Blessings. Sharon
More from Victoria and Danielle: Surround yourself with pure white light of God's love and nothing can touch you. I would also check to see if you were depressed or negative as those type of energies often are attracted to that type of person. Also why not just ask what they want. Sometimes acknowledgement of their presence and a willingness to listen to whatever message they might have can stop the activity. Say something like this "Whoever you are, you are disturbing me. If you have a purpose in being here, a message for me, than give me the message and leave. This is my home and you are not invited to be present here, so you must leave. Go to the light, you will find what you are looking for there."
Try radio rather than a TV for interference with the visiting spirits. You could say a prayer and make a circle of white light (In your mind) around your bed and even say a short prayer before getting in to bed. "I am a creature of light and love and nothing evil can touch me." Love Victoria and Danielle
Night Invasions
I had a dream that a spirit was holding me down and breathing in my ear. I couldn't move and I could only mumble. I was mumbling Jesus Name and it got off but every time I closed my eyes again it would come back. The next two times it wasn't on me but around me. It really wasn't a dream. Now I'm afraid. I've always been intuitive and now I'm afraid of my own ability. Cindy
Learn to Protect Yourself says Victoria: This has nothing to do with psychic ability and everything to do with your way of living. There are several books out on psychic protection. (Psychic Protection : Creating Positive Energies for People and Places by William Bloom, ISBN: 0684835193) I believe they are called Psychic Protection. Also join a meditation group or the Spiritualist church and receive some training on how to control this situation. You can also keep a crucifix on your bed for now. There is limited help in a book called What To Do When You Are Dead- Craig Hamilton-Parker. ISBN: 0806929960 You will have to get angry with that spirit and tell him to "BE GONE" Do you use a ouja board? Victoria
At night after I go to bed, after just falling asleep I wake up and see a person standing by my bed. I scream and of course it is gone. I am very scared and need to know what it is that is happening. I am starting to be afraid to fall asleep. It has been about 6 times and 2 of them have been in one week. I at first thought that it was a dream but I am not in a deep sleep. It is usually after only being asleep for 15 to 30 min. If I don't figure out what it is soon I may have some problems sleeping. Thanks Chris
There could be an important message here advises Sharon: Before scaring the willies out of this spirit and she doesn't want to come back (she will be scared of frightening you too much) why not let this powerful experience work for you.
Firstly when you go to bed make sure you say some kind of prayer. You want to make sure that this spirit is totally of the light. (I feel she is. She feels like some kind of relative figure, Mother or Grandmother).
The prayer I use is "The light of God Surrounds Me, the Power of God enfolds Me, only those who walk in God's light are allowed to enter into that circle of light. Only those masters of Christ Consciousness are Allowed to Channel Information to Me." (This may or may not work for you depending on your spiritual beliefs. I feel it will be Ok though.)
Envelope yourself in light, your room, your house, etc. everyone in the house. Then go to sleep.
If the spirit (who feels lovely by the way) comes again say OK, if you are here in my highest best interest I will listen to what you have to say. Then basically listen. If it starts to get too creepy and you feel that they are
not of the light just say the Lords Prayer. They will be out of there before you can say jackrabbit.
If its still too creepy for you get some books on the subject to educate yourself on the subject. Life after Death, Life After Life: The Investigation of a Phenomenon--Survival of Bodily Death by Raymond A., Jr., M.D. Moody, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, ISBN: 0062517392, and On Life After Death by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross ISBN: 0890876533.
You feel like you are at a bit of a crossroads and I feel the information to be provided will be well worth the little fright it will take to listen. Good Luck! Bright Blessings, Sharon
While travelling in Bermuda, I awoke to find a young man in period clothing standing a few feet away from my bed. Since then, I have developed film showing what looks like a spirit near me in the same room. And also since then, it happened again in my apartment but this time with another figure of a woman also in period clothing. Her face was not clear, but the outline of her clothing was. Is it me or is it that places I have been are haunted? Thank you in advance Denise
Past Lives Reach Out: Very interesting for sure. The place you were in was reaching out to you.. I feel you need to touch into past lives and find the attachment to you.. I also suggest you put white light around you and send them home now. Love and Light Barbi
Thank you for your help with this. When you send someone to the light, do you say it out loud or think it? Will they respond to my thoughts? Can these spirits attach themselves to me? Is that why you say wrap myself in the light? Sincerely, Denise D Hanna
About Working with Light: Saying it out loud adds a lot more oomph to the message, but saying it silently can work. yes, the spirits can attach themselves to you, and this is why we suggest the work with the light... hope that helps. Lotsa LLLove,
Danielle
Hi my name is Bianca. All my life I have been different. I have predicted events, had visions, astral projection, visitors, and so on. My father told me that my whole grandfathers side of the family have the gift. That I am descended from a very long line of Apache shaman. I have always been terrified of it, until recent years I have learned to embrace it (I am 19). My gift has always preceded my fathers and that I know of all other family members, but yet I find that I am not using my full potential.
I can not control or harness any of it. It is totally random. I feel as if I should have a better control or grasp of some sort. I think that my biggest fear as of now is spirits. I have had some terrifying experiences. I know that I should not fear them, but a part of me still does. Especially because of an evil spirit I encountered. It was in an old house that I lived in with my father for a time. It was in the basement and every time that someone left the door open it would bother me. It was a man, tall, I remember when I first moved in there it tried to suffocate me. I remember that I woke to find that my body was still asleep, but my mind was alert . I could not move, I felt as if I was being drained of energy. My life was in danger was all I could think of and I remember willing myself to live. To wake up. I know that if I had not done so that I would have died. I remember having visions of him after, but I was protected after that. I remember seeing 2 other spirits protecting me after that. I still feel their presence today. If you can help me, please write me back. Bianca Romero
Mary-Anne on the Role of Fear in these Invasions: Thanks so much for writing in and sharing your experiences with us. My first impressions from what you have written is to let you know that you are growing into your gift here - that it is behaving for you in a "fresh and raw" way that will eventually lead to more focus, more discipline and more control around the images and internal knowings. You have set that intention yourself and it will be responded to. If you come from a long line of folks with this gift, you will find that the ones who came before you will have the experience of not knowing what to do with it in their younger years but growing into a more mature spirit and being able to identify what some of those insights mean. You are in a learning curve here from the looks of things and because at 19 we are still forming, you will gain the perspective you need to be able to integrate this into yourself as second nature, over the course of the next 10 years or so. This is very common. I feel that you are having these experiences now so that you know that you will have this all your life and will grow into using this in a more controlled and focused way. The spirits want you to be comfortable with them - to understand that connecting with them is part of you and to have the time to integrate it and mature with it so that when the time comes that your gift will be used "out there in the world" you will be ready, wizened and quite able and capable of dealing with everything that comes your way.I will suggest here a small exercise that can help the process of disciplining these energies for yourself. It is very simple and private. Every morning, simply make three "predictions" for yourself for the day - whatever they are and whatever feelings, images, colours etc. come to you - jot them down. At the end of the day, look at them and make note of what did happen, when, where and how and which prediction they seem to correspond to. Over a short period of time, you should see that you are running 3 for 3 and also that you are gaining a lot of insight into how things present themselves to you and what certain images and feelings mean for you so that you will be better able to interpret these things when they come. It may be random now (so you know how powerful it is) but it won't stay random. You have already begun the process of discipline and it will work.
As to the situation with the evil spirit - they are condensed and very dense old emotional charge - held back for a long time. Even though sinister, it is a case of old emotional charge having formed together to create this sense of an evil spirit. In the end, it is only love and acceptance that can evolve these fear-based beings and return the emotional fragments of the fears back to the original cause or owner of those fears. Now, you cannot simply say "I'll love you through your evolution" because they are what they are and are programmed to behave in the ways that they do and they are not always safe and they do try to do harm sometimes because they are pure hurt as it is. You can however call on the Great Spirit for light and protection and let the Great Spirit know you recognize this as a child of fear and call upon the source of all that is to help heal that fear and evolve that energy into love.
But, you have to surround yourself with white light protection because they aren't nice spirits and they don't respond (at least not initially) to these loving messages. God (source, great spirit) is the only one who can truly help those spirits but you can use your connection to the source to help them along. I speculate that they may come to you because you are close to God and can help them in a way they cannot help themselves. I will also suggest that these spirits contacting you does indicate a desire for these spirits to heal their dynamics. But because they are fear fragments, they are also afraid of losing themselves in the process of healing. So, yes it does become complex, but in the end it is about all of the energy wishing to return to source and to heal and find it's own higher vibration. I can only speculate that part of what you will grow into is one who can help other people grapple with and cope with some of their greatest fears – which become like prisons to us - and once we are able to let go of those fears, we become free. This is not an easy task and one that I feel you may be "in training" for for quite a while in your life.
I want to also suggest that those with a gift given as you have described will have some of their own fears to face as they (you) learn about yourself and your talent and its purpose. Life is never exactly totally easy for folks like this - but - your own soul chose this and chose also to not live an "ordinary life" but one that will prove to be useful and helpful to others who cross your path. I suspect that your life story will be a very interesting one and you will be given first hand experience of many things in order to help you help others. These are the strong impressions I've received from your writings.
So Bianca, this is what I have in response to your query. I wish you all the very best and we're here if you need to share any more experiences with us. Take care. Mary-Anne
This has been hapening to me for about 10 years. It started with growling and the cold spots. But we seen what they wanted us to see and it went away. Not I have moved and have had several encounters since then. But the one that has scared me the most was last year around this time as usual. I was walking in my back door (it was dark, as sual) and I felt something running at me. I was so terrified and couldnt but run inside and leap for the couch. (my family must have thought I was loosing it). SInce then I felt someone watching me, seen dark shadows while I am taking a shower. And last night I woke up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom and it was there again. I was terrified and have never peed so fast in my life. Ran in and woke my husband up to tell him how scared I was. He thinks Im crazy.. Please help me, what do they want with me?
I am getting that there is something that has grown attached to you. It feels to me like you are a very open person, and I would start protecting yourself with white light. It feels that you are very easy to attach to with these entities. I do feel they are trying to warn you about something to be careful with, but I do not feel they will hurt you. In fact, I feel the more that you see them the more answers you will be given, but you need to lose the daunting feeling of them. Part of this can be done by inviting the white light around yourself and anytime you are feeling scared remember to envision the light around yourself. I do feel there is big news around you, and that you are being summoned by a higher power for some healing that you are to be doing. There is something that you should be doing that will help other people. I hope this has helped Blessings Kimmi
Hi, I'm really confused. I've had many encounters with spirits. I don't really know much about spirits but I know that many tried to contact me. There's one spirit in particular which I named "Norm" that throws things and moves things around the house but when I moved, I haven't seen him. The other day I went to a friends house and started reading someone's tarot cards which I have been doing for many years but haven't perfected yet. Anyway, during the reading me and my friend started getting very shaky and I felt really scared and nervous. Then the lights started flickering on and off. When I layed out the cards in the celtic cross they weren't for the person I laid them out for. It was like they were for someone else. Then I shuffled like crazy and laid them out and it was the same exact cards. This happened 3 times in a row. I don't understand what happened but its bothering me a lot. I feel like this was a spirit but Inever felt that scared before when i felt a spirit. Is this a bad spirit? Am I in trouble? Please help I'm scared. Chrissy
Norm lived at your other house. He stayed and you moved on. Since you do have the ability to acknowledge the spirits (and they know you do) I think it's time you learned how to feel protected with them and know what to do if it's time to send on on to their rightful place in their evolution. Most of them don't even realize that they no longer have a body! Calm down. Don't let yourself go down that slippery slope about the spirit that was wanting a reading from you. What were the cards that were drawn? What does that tell you about the spirit? Three times to draw those cards. Someone needed to hear the message that was given. It could have easily been a helping spirit that was using the medium of the Tarot to contact you of the person you were reading for. Be easy with it.
Did you pray first and smudge your cards with sage or incense? Did you have a candle burning? These are "house cleaning" things that help clear the energy in the room, BEFORE you shuffle the cards and start the spread. Very important to do these!
It was a big lesson about the veil. When you use the oracle of the Tarot, or any oracle, it's important to "stay clean", - Before, During, and After. Otherwise, as you have dsicovered, unknown and unwanted spirits can invade your space. Love, Laura
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