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Our Columns Advice from the Love Psychics - on Love and Relationships Advice from the Psychic - about Paranormal events and being psychic Advice from the Medium - about Spirit Life, Channeling, Meditation Advice from Laura - about Animal Communications |
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| 1~~Reading Relationships
Too often, one of the messages I must deliver in a relationship reading is "you saw this coming months ago, but chose to overlook the signs. Perhaps now you will trust those uneasy feelings within you." The signs are obvious in hindsight. A painful breakdown might have been avoided if the client had acknowledged and reacted to the red flags that had been waving in the background. So what are these subtle signs and signals, the green, amber and red flags that tell us whether a relationship is right for us? How DO you accurately read a relationship? There are some clear indicators, obvious cues. You just have to be willing to notice them.
While theses signals may not mean that a relationship can never work, they do indicate where work must be done if you want a healthy long-lasting commitment. Here are some clues to look for.
There are a lot of other ways that you can tell whether a relationship will work in the long-term or not.
While the presence of any one of these signals does not mean that you should end the relationship and the sooner, the better, more than two or three of these "negative" signals, should suggest that you back off. Let the objective observer in you take over so you can float along for awhile. Give yourself time to acknowledge those uneasy feelings within. In this time you can consider your options, and decide whether it's worth negotiating a change in attitude.. or that it's time to let go..
The signs that a relationship is "right" are very simple: you're relaxed, it's easy, you work together well, you're not so concerned about outcome, where you're going doesn't matter so much as where you're at right now... There's real chemisty between you, but it isn't taking over your life... life in general is moving well - you just got a promotion, you're happy for no good reason... these are all good clues that something wonderful is working in your life, that love is flowing. I found it interesting that I could easily write about the amber and red flags that come up around relationships, but there wasn't a whole lot to say about the green flags, the "go" signals. There is a simple reason why - when it's right, it's usually quite obvious... with no amber and red flags flying, the way forward is clear. While there may be obstacles ahead, the couple is aware of them and willing to face them together... the love connection really is that simple. You don't have to be psychic to read relationships... you just have to be willing to notice the signs. The art of noticing suggests that you pay attention:
If you're spending your energy trying to read the object of your affections, instead of just enjoying being together, you probably need to think twice about this relationship... but when you're happy to take it as it comes, well, this could be that happily ever after partnership you've always dreamed about. Worried about the market mayhem? 1a~~ Find the RIGHT Partner Why do most people seek an intimate relationship? "A need for intimacy, for sexual gratification and satisfaction are all important aspects of who we are. Each of us has our own way in which these needs must be fulfilled to feel happy and secure," says Psychologist Dennis Sugrue of the University of Michigan Medical School.
So how can you find the kind of person who can meet your emotional needs, and that share your core values? One place to look for clues is in the best relationships you already have with your friends and family.
When you do such a mental review, you'll find a pattern of personality traits will begin to emerge. It is no coincidence these same traits will best serve you in choosing an intimate partner. Remember though, your most important relationship is your relationship with yourself. If this relationship could use a tune-up => Click here! http://www.quantum-self.com/smash_your_limits.htm
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| 2~~ Love On the Bus About a year and a half ago I was the single mom of two kids that worked in a small local bar/restaurant as a cocktail waitress. My ex still lived with me for the sake of the kids and due to this I felt secure enough that I didn't want another relationship. One of the other waitresses there that is into astrology and all that kind of destiny/kharma stuff kept telling me that she kept feeling like I shouldn't feel satisfied just living with my ex, she said she felt like if I just opened my eyes and looked the " right one " was right in front of my face. A couple of weeks after she starts making these comments to me, I'm getting on the bus to go to work and I see this guy. Now I have seen him before but never really paid any attention to him (I usually had my head stuck in a book) he smiles at me and two things strike me...I know him from somewhere and how good looking he is. A few minutes later I am engrossed with my book and he is forgotten, that is when he turned around in his seat and asks "Don't I know you?" I look up and he is directing the question at me. To which I replied that I had thought the same thing when I had got on the bus. He told me that he had been thinking that he knew me from somewhere for weeks but never had gotten the nerve to say anything. After a very good conversation we hadn't figured out where we knew each other from and figured that it was just from seeing each other on the bus everyday for months. He gave me his phone number and told me to give him a call sometime if I wanted to. That night I told my ex about it and he encouraged me to call if I wanted, but I took the safe route and convinced my self that I was happy with the way things were. I didn't see the man again until a month later. Once again we had a good conversation. I explained to him about the living situation I was in and why I hadn't called. He said he understood but would like to be just friends with me and he could wait as long as I needed to feel comfortable. So we went on just talking on the bus for about a month when he asked me to join him for lunch. I accepted and I had such a fabulous time I agreed to keep seeing him. A couple of months after we started dating my family wanted to meet the person who was making me so happy. Well while I was trying to get out that situation something I said about him sounded familiar to my stepmom and she started asking me questions about him. She said that it sounded like this guy she had known for years and that in fact, I myself, had known at one time, when I stilled lived at home. Now that had been 11 years since I had lived at home so I thought maybe.... so I called him to see if he was the same person. He was. It turned I had met him originally when I was thirteen. He is a couple of years older than me and had a son at a young age. One of my dad's friends had a sister quite a bit younger than him. I babysat her son on numerous occasions and had met her boyfriend. This man turned out to be her ex boyfriend and I also babysat his son when he was little. Now I was pretty blown away with all this but there was more. I had been at the same family functions he had been at for years. My family and his son's family spend all our holidays together. He would usually be there for a little while either to pick up his son or to just see him for a few minutes. Which meant I had been seeing this man on a regular basis for over half my life. In the weeks to come I kept seeing more and more of him. My ex moved out. Things at my job got better. My life all around was happier. My stepmom kept making comments that she didn't know why she hadn't thought about putting the two of us together before. Everyone that knew both us said that we were perfect for each other. We are now married and I couldn't be happier. The waitress at the bar was right..." the right one " was in front of my face all along. Get an Astrological Reading by Phil
Since all forecasts are based on probabilities, whether 3 dimensional or otherwise, one needs to keep in mind that the collective consciousness is the force behind the flow of events/energies. That can be interpreted as potential chaos that you as an individual have no control over, OR you as an individual entity can contribute to that very flow of energy. Your choice to move forward into the world/reality that you want is just as powerful as the choice to accept a world you don't want to live in or leave to your children. There are wonderful changes happening that are exposing the illusions we have lived in. These shifts of energy are shaking down old systems that have out served their usefulness/purpose. As much as we experience or see others expressing woe around these changes, we all know deep down that it is something we collectively have created and desired. So, what have we created and desired? We want to be in alignment with our true selves and the world around us. We want to live in peace and love and freedom. We are at a pivotal point of where we personally and therefore collectively invest our energies. We as individuals can choose to approach this pivotal time with a sense of expansion, growth and in the spirit of divine flow OR we approach it with a sense of victimhood and fear. The world will emphasize on every level those that suffer and are victims in strong contrast to those gathering more power and creating really cool stuff! Whether coming from the positive pole of creating or the negative, we still are the ones that choose how to navigate these changes. There will be great fear, loss, change and resistance to the systems and beliefs that have been set in place in the coming year and beyond. In the place of these collapsing structures comes the chance for something higher, better, freer, more authentic and joyful. I for one will continue to see and know that the light coming in is burning up what isn't working and bringing in something magical, beautiful and full of promise. The forecast for the year? Extremes. Which extreme will you choose to be in through your thoughts, beliefs and emotions? Blessings and love, Cherie Order Your Pre-Birth Planning Reading Here Miracles come from your love!
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