Excerpted from a larger article by by Victoriya Ivchenko, May, 2008
Very often I was writing down whatever my daughter’s soul would tell me. I really like the way we were communicating with each other. One time I wrote down the following: mama don’t eat red colored food for three days, you can eat green colored food though, it’s very relaxing. But the very next day I saw freshly harvested strawberries in the market, couldn’t stand the temptation and bought some. But because these were the first strawberries for the season, most likely farmers used fertilizers to make it grow fast, and I got a stomach ache. My baby daughter was trying to protect me from it, but because that kind of thoughts are never suggested with a demanding manner, that’s why often I was neglecting them. Thoughts of the powers of light are never conveyed in a demanding manner and are resonated in feelings.
Also, children may want to draw paintings. Yes, I mean it, the child! But first, they can do it only with the help of your hands. When I was pregnant, I could feel how my daughter wanted me to draw pictures of sun, right in the kitchen wall. And so I did. There was something so magical about that drawing of a sun on my kitchen wall, with its big, wavy and loving light beams. Every time it was catching my eyes, delightful joy was rising in my heart.
Please draw with your unborn child, it will be a very rewarding experience. Otherwise, you may ask them about something and try to picture their response with whatever image it will come to you. Also you may fint it very interesting when father is drawing the picture of the baby on mother’s tummy. First he should meditate on child’s image then draw the image it is sending to him.
When I was pregnant I often wanted to wake up early and take a walk outdoors. It is because in old times that’s how it was – when people lived in harmony with mother nature, they woke up with the rising sun and greeted Him. Together with its first ray they bestowed happiness and joy to every living being. Our souls are still unpolluted and still in that harmony, only if we could create a space of love within ourselves.
Your child is awakening you towards certain actions and ideas. Listen to them, listen to yourself, which means also listening to your child. Child is already living, feeling, hearing. He is catching the first glimpses of this world. And it is through your feelings that he gets these glimpses! Of both this parents! You are just like the roots and the trunk of the tree, upon which is growing this heavenly fruit.
What these little souls want to tell us…
I am doing readings for pregnant women. Very often children are asking parents to not watch TV, especially shows containing aggression and fear. For when you are watching, you are starting to re-manifest these characters, you are being stressed out and bodily reactions take affect. All this is affecting the child.
Children are asking their pregnant mother to spend more time in fresh air, take a walk outside, and follow correct diet, to listen to a pleasant music, to dance. To write a letter to their parents or to visit them and tell, that you love them.
One time a pregnant woman asked to find out for her why after the pregnancy fetus was diagnosed with poor blood circulation. She is doing all her exercises and walks every day. Baby replied that the reason is that the mother is not happy with her husband. She demands too much from him, that she is not satisfied with his attitude towards herself and because of it she doesn’t want to give him her emotions sincerely. No emotions means no life energy. Child is existing within his both parents energetic field. Whenever mutual energetic circulation is unstable hence the problems with blood circulation are. Probably its not unknown to all of us that sometimes we may superficially show of that we are doing things for someone else, but within ourselves we don’t not mean it actually… this was exactly one of these cases. The mother of the baby understood, and they gave a birth to a healthy baby afterwards.
Another time pregnant woman asked me why she started to have problems with her kidneys. (I also want to mention here that a spiritual realization of the actual causes is not excluding medical involvement, should it be necessary. But its obvious that in those cases the positive results will come a lot faster, and often that kind of interference will not be necessary at all. It all depends on how serious the problem is and how determined the people are to put their painful memories and selfishness aside for the sake of their child. The actual cause of her problem was that on a subtle level she was still obsessed with her childhood memories of being mistreated by her father. With her fear, when he was yelling at her and she would stop to breath out of fear. She was bearing within herself a baby boy, that’s why it was very important that she could forgive her father and let go off all her painful memories that she held against a man. We had to go through few sessions of guided imagery. She pictures her father image in front of her, and started to talk to him, trying to forgive him and asked forgiveness from him too, and eventually expressed her gratitude to him. Then she had to re-live through the same childhood scenes that were the cause of her pain but this time she would try to keep her balanced condition of love and light which were emanating from her heart. And all the loud shouting of her father, all his aggressive energy didn’t reach her but dissolved in this bright light of her heart. It did help her. I could feel how happy is the soul of her son.
Sometimes the soul of your child is bringing you closer to the solution of an important karmic issue. That was the case with another of my client. Married couple approached me for a reading, because she had to give a birth already in couple of weeks, and they wanted to do it at home even though in the presence of a nurse. But her blood pressure all of a sudden jumped so high, she started to have strong headaches so the doctor said that giving birth at home is out of question and the life of the baby is in danger now. Immediately I received information that her husband is causing this to happen. It was because of him she was having all this changes in her energetic field. …one after another his different incarnations started to swim out in front of my vision. Here he is with her pregnant wife in a canoe, trying to escape of their persuaders, but a deadly arrow strikes her. And still another time upon his pregnant wife is killed by a sword… then Middle Ages… his wife and children are slaughtered by enemies. And this was going on during many of their lives. His main concern was his fear for his wife’s life. Because they came alone by themselves I told them in whole detail immediately what’s the real reason for this condition. The wife says: – he is worried about me even in this life. He didn’t let me to go to work during all my pregnancy.
His subconscious fear of to lose his wife again his worries and anger mixed all together were manifesting on energy lever in his wife’s body. But why? I continued the session. Realizing the actual cause is lying deep further yet.
… His soul lived once in a tribe whose totem animal was a wolf. Nobody had the right to kill a wolf. But once he found in a forest and she-wolf with her cubs and… killed them… the reason for his act was deep in his emotions. He had a momentary urge of indulge himself in a pleasure of demonstrating his own strength, power and the desire of rising above god. (“who are you, god? I have all the power. I will kill them now and all the same, nothing will happen to me!”) These were the very same thoughts that entangled him to the endless karmic chain. During many of his incarnation he was going through the same lesson and yet couldn’t catch the lesson.
Often souls have to go through many incarnations, many experiences, sufferings in order to realize their mistakes, and re-evaluate the thoughts and ideas once were born within ourselves.
And still again he didn’t learn his lesson, didn’t come the right understanding. But the soul of their child gave them a hint to go there where they can find an explanation and advice. They began to pray, asking for forgiveness… at the end, they were able to have their baby the way they planned – at home…
Universe is not trying to punish us for our mistakes, but wants to help us, give us clues, direct us to set free the love in our hearts, the forgiveness, to compassion, to happiness and joy, for sharing our good feelings and our good deeds… While writing these words, the fire in my heart started to glow in flames, as if universe is telling us that it is ready to help us right now, realize everything that needs a resolution, it is ready to help you leading you towards your path. That right at this moment it is giving you its love, and in order to feel it to its full extent, you just need to free yourself from old sorrows lying upon our chests like heavy rocks. It wants to tell us that within us lies never-ending source of forgiveness and creativity, that we are a RESERVOIR of love and light…”
Victoriya Ivchenko, May, 2008 , Email: firstname.lastname@example.org
A note from Victoria: Dolmens asked me to write an article about relationship of parents with their child yet to be born.Forces of light have been helping and leading me throughout whole my life, directing and literally walking me onto people who were teaching me the skills they possessed themselves.
I have a degree in psychology, and am able to correlate my esoteric training with my work and psychology. I am an author of few books about spirituality, about the role of subtle powers of light are playing in people’s lives and about past life recollection in Vedic era.